Facebook

Saturday night, I sat by him in the living room surfing facebook and reading some articles.

"abe, do you think this pic is nice? " I sent him a fb link through google talk.

I turned my gaze to his laptop, he clicked on the link, the picture loaded on his screen.

"nice!" He glanced through it and replied.

"Why not you 'like' it?" I asked.

"oh, aiyo, where got people force other to like their photo one ar? " He smile and grimaced at me. >_<”

I blushed and yelled. "I don't care, you have to like it."

After finishing my words, I stretched my hand for his touch pad, moving the mouse cursor over the like link displayed below my pic in fb and pressed.....

Hehe, he likes my pic now, and I bet he dare not unlike it. =P

我真的超无聊耶！@_@

abe's writing

While on the way going to work in this morning, abe handed me a piece of newspaper and asked me to read an article about an oversea band. I took it up and started to read. Since he looked so excited, I thought it might be something nice or something I am interested. To my disappointment, I did not feel excited and the content is a bit dull. It described a new band named “Flying Virgins” which is alike Mew, one of abe’s favorite band. I am not interested in this kind of article lar. I guessed he just wanted to show me his new lover or wanted to buy their album collection which might cost few hundred dollars.

“Oh, is this your new lover ? ooo, so nice! ” I respond with little interest.

“Please read it properly lar!” He insisted.

I still not realized but continued to say something which wasn't relevant. =P He could not endure and pointed his finger at the top of the article.

“Read this! ” He requested.

“oh, I see, it is written by 吉安, the ai fm DJ mar!” I saw吉兴造音’s logo printed on top of the article which wasn’t obvious.

“Wah, he is so talented, his writing isn’t bad ler. This is a very nice article.” I started showing my interest and continue to shiok myself.

“Aiyo, can’t you see my name printed there also? ” He hinted me.

“What? Why your name is printed there?” I was curious.

“Aiyo, this was written by me! 吉安asked me to introduce them to public one! ” -__-“ He eventually blurted out.

I knew that he was busying in writing something recently, just I did not know the article was one of them. =P

He will be introducing this band on air on 7th November(saturday) 10pm to 12am on ai fm. Listen also if you are curious about it.

生命的品格

刚刚在网上读了一篇很感触的文章。愿共勉之。

生命是有限的，从一定意义上说，我们无法将生命延长到我们理想的程度，我们所能做的就只有提高这有限的生命历程的质量，使这有限的人生旅途更有意义。

要懂得珍惜。珍惜每一寸光阴。一寸光阴一寸金，寸金难买寸光阴。孔夫子感叹：“逝者如斯夫！不舍昼夜。”要把有限的时间花在有意义的事情上。花在学习上，多读一本书，多学一点东西，多了解一点世界；花在工作上，多做一些有益于社会的事情。当我们离开这个世界时，真正做到不因虚度年华而悔恨。要珍惜一粒米、一寸布、一张纸、一支铅笔。“一粥一饭，当思来之不易；半丝半缕，恒念物力维艰。”我们享受的每一份服务，我们使用的每一件物品，都凝聚着人们辛勤劳动的汗水。我们吃饭时只看到雪白的大米，却看不到农民在烈日的暴晒下赤脚在田里耕种；我们用精美的铅笔，学习写字，却不知道制造一根铅笔从伐木到油漆包装直至送到文具店，要经过多少人的劳动。因此要懂得惜福。要珍惜朋友之间的友谊。人海茫茫，能回首相聚就是缘分。要珍惜别人对自己的每一份关爱，哪怕只是一句问候，一个微笑。滴水之恩，当涌泉相报，更不能以怨报德。要懂得尊重别人，感受别人，体恤别人。

要有悲悯的情怀。人生在世，要心存感激，有一颗感恩的心。小时候，我们离不开父母的养育；长大了，离不开别人的帮助，我们吃着别人生产的粮食，穿着别人缝制的衣服，住着别人建造的房子；生病了，还要别人照顾。我们的衣食住行都离不开别人。所以，要敬重别人、包容别人，常怀一颗慈悲的心去帮助别人。要把关怀别人、救助别人当做自己的天职，变成自己的天性。正所谓：“予人玫瑰，手有余香。”

要有面对苦难的意志和勇气。人世间许多重要的事情，只有通过忍受磨难才能有所感悟，所谓“大其心则能体天下之物”。有时候，通过忍受磨难，才能表达真理和爱，才能唤醒人性中的良知。一个人只有敢于并勇于承受磨难，才能锻炼成无所不克的意志，才能不断增长道德勇气，以至于可以无畏地直面死亡。孟子说：“天将降大任于是人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤……”说的也是这个意思。

　人世间，我们都是匆匆行者，沿途的风景再好，也不可贪恋，路上的客店再舒适，我们也只是过客。弱水三千，只能取一瓢饮。人赤条条来到世间，又赤条条离开世间，生时没有带来任何东西，死时也带不走任何东西，无论你是君主还是囚徒，是富豪还是乞丐，概莫能外。这是造物主给人的定数，是任何人都改变不了的。所以，要有一个明白的头脑，把人生想透彻。在滚滚红尘中，要学会“爱惜自己的羽毛”。王阳明说：“人心本是天然之理，精精明明，无纤介染着，只是一无我而已。”只有进入无我之境，才能超然物欲之外，“本来无一物，何处染尘埃”，自始至终干干净净地做人，走完人生的旅程，这就是生命的品格。

Pre-wedding photo

One good thing about the bridal shop we have chosen was, there was an attentive communication session before we start the shooting session each time. We were welcomed to give idea and opinion on what and how to shoot. abe brought along his Nikon camera and suggested to the photographer of our idea to shoot the moment of the groom shots at the bride. That’s why I manage to post some pictures here (from abe's camera) before reviewing those real works done by the photographer. ;) The photographer 小乃 showed me those pictures he captured in his camera during the break. There looked so nice. Praying hard that we can get 66 nice pictures that worth RMxxxx we've paid ( and going to pay ) . =)

Both the photographer and makeup girl are from Taiwan. Two of them are polite and very easy to mix with. The makeup gal called abe “小帅哥” that made him 自爽for awhile. She called me “小美人”or “妹妹”. The form of address used is so much different from Malaysian. =P . There is another assistant photographer named Lyn who is also very good in amusement.

We have the indoor and outdoor photo shooting session in different day which we did not plan in purpose. Yesterday was merely the outdoor shot. 阿当was our indoor photographer. He did not able to make it yesterday as he had gone back to Taiwan and 小乃was the one who replaced him. According to 淑金 the makeup gal, 阿当and 小乃are the most handsome and great photographers in their shops at Taiwan. We were so lucky. Haha.

I hope you can still recognize me in that super thick makeup -_-“

大家幸苦了。

Map from abe

This is the map drawn by abe to guide me to Pasarakyat where I need to meet a customer there.
He is doing this for me when I have to go a place where I never been before and have no idea on how to go myself. I guess he is very good in drawing the map as normally I can reach the place and back without getting lost (only lost a little bit sometimes lar!). =P I do not know if other ppl will think so like me. To me map in google seem like too complicated!

Kellie's Castle - a castle long in the making

Our friends Mimi and Anson had their wedding photo outdoor shooting at Kellie’s castle. The pictures of their wedding posted are extremely nice. I did not know where and never heard of this place before although people may think I should know as it is not far away from my hometown (Mimi left her comment in fb saying that I should know. What a shame if I do not =P ).

It took 20 minutes to reach Kellie’s castle from my house. We took the opportunity to pay a visit to Kellie’s castle in this long holiday. The moment when we arrived it was almost 4 pm. Whether wasn’t good as sky was covered with black clouds, rain seemed imminent. We had to stay inside the building when the rain sprinkled. Fortunately the rain wasn’t heavy and it stopped very soon. Our rm4 for the entrance fee wasn’t wasted anyway. =P

Below is a brief description about this building:
William Kellie Smith built this building in year 1909. There were 70 workers employed from Madras to help in the construction. During the construction, a mysterious disease killed many of his workers. He then transferred his workers to build a nearby Hindu Temple which believed that would help to get rid of the tragedy happened to them. Work resumed after the temple was completed but the castle was never to be realized as Smith died of Pneumonia. The work halted after his death. There is a rumour going around that his spirit is still wondering the corridors of Kellie’s castle.

Sounds scary.

Eason’s moving on stage 26 live concert

We attended Eason’s moving on stage26 live concert in Sunway Lagoon on 16 Aug 2009. We did not plan for this initially. I was informed a few hours before the concert got started. Since it was hold in Sunway Lagoon, we expected to stand in the water while enjoying the concert. A friend warned him not to wear jeans as his jean was faded due to the chemical mixed in the water previously, thus we put on casual wear and slippers. It is very nice of his colleague to give us the free tickets. Abe did not date me since my birthday. -_-“

A date is very much appreciated. :P. Without doubt we enjoyed the show very much. Eason is the best! =P We were a bit late but luckily we did not lined up for too long to go in while others who bought expensive tickets needed to line up for long. We stood for the 1st hour and sat on the floor for another hour to enjoy our ice-cream and watched Eason’s performance on a big screen. In the third hour we squeezed into the crowd to get as near to the stage as possible! =P Yea, finally I saw Eason on the stage. Eason did not disappoint us by presenting a lot of great dances and nice songs. The last item on the concert was a grand display of fireworks. We watched in dazzled.

We went to Eason’s moving on stage 9 live concert on last year in Stadium Merdeka. We got the tickets after donating to an awful earthquake happened in China. After a year, Eason came back for his moving on stage 26 live concert in Sunway Lagoon, and we attended once more, kind of 有缘！

I am not particularly into Eason, but I enjoyed the time being together to experience the same thing together, especially those things he likes or I like. It doesn’t matter as long as we do it together at the same time.










Photos captured on last year.